ok im booked in for a c section on wednesday, not sure what time it will be done and have decided i dont want any visitors (apart form DF, DS and my mum will be watching ds or in with me) until the next day just so i have time to recover and at least be up and walking before anyone comes in. so its pretty much the in laws i dont want coming in as they please(if i had my way they wouldnt come in at all)

so my quesion is how would you go about telling people you didnt want them to come in when baby is born?? preferably in a nice non affending way(considering they will probably be anoyed anyway)